Home is always so harmonious and warm.
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some families, the longer they spend time together, the sweeter they become.
usually husband and wife's seven-year itch and a place of chicken feathers in the family seem to have nothing to do with them. their home is always so harmonious and warm.
people in such families usually have these 12 good habits, and it is no longer difficult to integrate them into life and have a harmonious and loving family atmosphere.
say "thank you"
it is not easy for family members to see each other every day and say "thank you" to each other.
when they are kind to you, keep a little gratitude and don't take it for granted. it's not rusty, it's the key to warming up.
Thank you for the glass of boiled water I had already hung on hand when I came home from work.
Thank you for the low voice of your lover when you are sad.
Thank you for helping the child warmly while cooking.
when they hear your "thank you", they know that you can feel what you give.
the temperature of a thank you is enough to warm the whole family.
take 5 minutes to clean yourself up every day
it is hard to imagine people whose appearance is neat and tidy, and it is even more difficult to imagine that a warm and harmonious home is full of sloppy and untidy people.
take 5 minutes to clean up your appearance every day, and don't care about it just because you face your family. The clothes are crumpled, the face is not washed every day, and the hair is in a mess, which makes everyone feel uncomfortable.
change the dirty clothes in time, smooth out the wrinkles in the corners of the clothes, and comb the messy hair neatly, the whole person's state will be different.
No matter how busy you are, you still care about your appearance.
when your family sees you clean and decent, they feel more comfortable.
as time goes by, you get better and better, and the atmosphere at home becomes more relaxed and enjoyable.
Xiao Quexing shares it easily
Daily life is made up of one small but certain happiness after another.
on my way to work in the morning, I saw the rainbow on the horizon, took a picture and sent it to the crowd at home.
order a cup of hot milk tea at noon and chat with your lover when you are happy.
when online shopping, brush to the little things you liked in childhood and send them to your parents.
the warmth between family members is not the only thing to say when something happens, but to find something lucky and have nothing to say to share happiness.
A small amount of happiness is passed on to your family, and your home will heat up quietly, and you will be in a double good mood.
Bad mood stays outside the door
in adulthood, everyone has sad and depressed times, but remember, family is not your punching bag.
when you get criticized by your boss in the company, you get unhappy with your colleagues, and no one can bear to come back and complain to your family.
the family is in a bad mood and quarrels may break out at any time.
emotional contagion is like a nuclear bomb, negative emotions can form a negative energy field and disturb the home.
you might as well adjust your emotions before entering the house. When you enter the house, shut those bad emotions out and face your family with a smile.
if you want a warm home, a smile is more useful than anger.
Family members send Wechat and see a second reply
whether you admit it or not, the speed of replying to Wechat largely hides your attitude towards a person.
as soon as the message from the family is sent out, they are quietly waiting to see your reply.
and your delay, too lazy to reply, will only make their fiery hearts turn cool in an instant.
if you can't see the news in time when you are busy, at least after you see it, move your fingers and take the time to reply and let them know that they are also your most important people.
the so-called fetter of home is just the response of love.
Don't look at your cell phone when you are with your child
there is a video on Douyin showing dad lying in bed playing with his cell phone and twins fighting at his feet without even looking at it.
No matter how the child struggles and attracts his attention, he doesn't care.
to be with your child, you don't call for company when you are around. Your attention and love for him is far more important than simple "appearance".
while looking at the mobile phone, while taking care of the children, I actually gave the time to the mobile phone and snubbed the children.
since you usually have no time to accompany him, at least pay attention to it when you are free, put down your phone, add some concentration to the companionship at home, and make the child's heart warmer.
after the husband and wife quarrel, settle on the same day
the Law of Happy Marriage says:
"couples who love again have 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 impulses of strangling each other in their lives."
under a roof, how can a pot spoon not touch the edge of the pot?
the children's education will be noisy, the care of the elderly will be noisy, and they may not have the same opinion about what to eat three meals a day.
are all trivial matters, let the other side guess their thoughts, and it is not necessary to have a cold war for a few months.
take advantage of the quarrel to explain your bottom line, chat and settle as soon as possible.
ordinary fighting, always continue to live, early untie the heart knot, the two can be more intimate.
parents are far away and talk on the phone every week
As an adult, you meet the wider world, lovers, children, careers, jobs, and countless friends.
but you are the only one left in your parents' world.
it is your helplessness that you are too far away from them to see each other only during the holidays.
but no matter how busy you are, be sure to call them every week and talk to them.
take care of their health, inquire about their new things, and talk about their little days.
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you will find that they have a stomach full of words, waiting to tell you, but this phone line just connects the love between the two ends.
have a hug before going out
there is a question on Zhihu: what's it like to hug the person you like?
someone said: "the oncoming fragrance paralyzed my body, paralyzed my heart, the earth, and stopped rotation."
when you are in love, you often hug, but when you become an old husband and wife, you forget how to love and the taste of hugging.
before going out every day, give a big hug and, as you used to, feel each other's body temperature and breathe gently.
you will remember that he who lives together is not only your relative, but also your lover.
maybe life is destined to be fuel, rice and salt, and the years will grow old, but your feelings don't need to fade away.
washing and cooking are shared by two people
Love goes both ways, not one way.
A family cannot become complete and warm by relying on someone to do a good job in housework and take good care of children.
No matter who earns more outside, who has a decent job, and who has to take care of things at home, two people have to carry it.
after you wash your clothes, let your lover cook.
if he has more children, you should clean the room more.
housework is a trivial matter that can't be avoided or avoided. You don't have to do all the housework, and don't let it go.
neither of them is so tired, they both have someone to rely on, and there is more sweetness in life.
take responsibility for each other, the family is full of love, no one will get bored.
give each other gifts on important days
repeat the monotonous life, no matter how harmonious, can not avoid the time.
is not unloved, the so-called insipid and boring, just because of the lack of a sense of ritual.
the Little Prince says:
"the sense of ritual is to make one day different from other days, and to make one moment different from other moments."
buy the clothes they want for a long time and give each other gifts on their wedding anniversaries;
exchange chocolate for his bouquet of flowers on Valentine's Day.
Family birthday, make a bowl of longevity noodles, with a little surprise.
in a boring life, with more conditioning, life will be interesting and not boring.
remember to archive your daily touching
the background has received such a message:
"I always look at screenshots of chatting with my wife in love, which is the feeling of seeing my heart melt away."
when you are bored and depressed, the most healing things are those sweet memories.
A faded postcard, an old photo, screenshots of daily chat, how to look and how warm.
the pictures your child draws for you are stored under the cabinet.
your lover has made your favorite soup and take a picture of it.
it's not easy for the whole family to be here, take a family photo.
every bit of love leaves a mark, and at some point in the future, it can be read slowly.
it is said that home is a harbor and a habitat when people are tired. In fact, a warm home depends on warm people.
it is inevitable that the life of ordinary people lies in dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping. Only by paying more attention to home can we have more love and warmth.
, may we all have a taste of mundane trivia and make our home warm in the days to come.