What kind of friends you have, what kind of future you have.
there was a popular saying on Weibo:
your level is the average of the five people you come into contact with most.
as the saying goes: those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black.
the influence of environment on a person is not only imperceptible, but also from quantitative change to qualitative change.
in fact, the more people you associate with, the more senior, positive, and optimistic people you will find.
will improve your ability quickly and give you more chances to succeed.
so, it's really important to be with good people!
I still remember that last year, a boy's dormitory went viral on Weibo at Sichuan University, with the title:
there are 6 boys in the dormitory, but they get 17 postgraduate offer in total.
only after knowing this dormitory did I know that one person gave up Tsinghua offer and prepared to go abroad.
2 people go to Tsinghua University, 1 person goes to Peking University, 1 person goes to the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and 1 person goes to Wuhan University.
there are only six people in the dormitory, and four of them have ranked first in professional grades for three years in a row.
someone gave a speech at Stanford University, and someone won the global gold medal in the International genetic Engineering Machine Competition.
someone has also served as an accompanying interpreter of foreign ambassadors to China at the Central Asian Forum.
in the interview, they confessed:
"of course there are times when you want to give up, but once someone slackens, other brothers will remind him and help him solve the problem.
because getting used to it is contagious:
the good habits of the people around you will make you better and better, and the bad habits of the people around you will make you more and more depraved.
so, you see, when people are in an excellent circle, all in an upward atmosphere, the people around them are working hard.
then naturally you will also use relatively strict standards to examine yourself and improve yourself.
in life, if you want to be smart, you have to be with smart people. In this way, you will be wiser.
if you want to be good, you have to be with good people. Only in this way can you stand out.
although in work and life, it depends more on one's own personal ability.
however, if you have a good teammate and a good guide, you will definitely make progress faster.
A girl I know is very cheerful and sociable. She has worked for less than three years and her monthly salary has increased several times.
it is also the salary that the company is willing to adjust her voluntarily.
I didn't understand at first, but then I found out that there was a reason for her rapid progress.
in her life, she is surrounded by a group of optimistic old friends, and she seldom complains about the unfairness of life.
as soon as she got off work at this end, her friends at the other end called her to see the world. In fact, it was an exchange party for all kinds of high-end people.
I couldn't help being curious and asked her:
"ordinary people like you have to find ways to get to know the most excellent people.
she laughed and said:
"when I first went there, I really had nothing to talk about. I was huddled in the corner all the time, just like an invisible man."
although I could not pick up any words at that time, it was not long before I went back, I realized that I was inadequate in all aspects.
so the next day I signed myself up for an English class and a fitness card. I also asked others for general knowledge of the workplace.
good life experience, a variety of financial knowledge points, to continue to learn, continue to practice.
this is not a short period of three years, I am like a different person, become better and better myself.
although, at that time, my colleagues always advised me that little girl, what's the use of learning that thing?
We don't need much higher education, spend that wrong money, pretend to who to see, there is no need to work so hard.
as a result, I developed a good oral English, coupled with the good performance of all aspects of comprehensive ability, I turned to change jobs to become an executive.
but that colleague is still a junior clerk and his income is very mediocre.
after thinking about it, luckily, I don't have the same knowledge as her. these friends are exactly the stumbling blocks that hinder our growth.
if you want to improve yourself and don't want to scrap yourself, it is necessary to stay away from the low-level moments.
like a man who knows how to manage money, his friends will never be profligate; for a person with positive energy, his friends will not frown.
A kind person, his friends will not do evil.
therefore, we should spend more time with excellent people, and even if we don't succeed, we will certainly become the best of ourselves.
as the saying goes: reading good books and making good friends are two great blessings in life.
means that we should read good books, make ourselves avoid evil for good, make friends with high people, make ourselves more diligent and strive for progress.
in fact, what kind of friends you have, what kind of future you have.
when you get along with low-level people for a long time, it is difficult to maintain high morale.
on the other hand, when you meet a superior personEven if you have some shortcomings, they can drive you to make progress and get better.
therefore, you should learn to spend more time with excellent, positive people and stay away from those who are negative, pessimistic and world-weary.
what's more, we should learn to improve ourselves, enhance our abilities, and become more and more powerful.
encourage each other.
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