There is no impassable road in this world, only people who can't figure it out.
Laozi said: "the beginning of all things, the road to simple, evolved to complex."
everyone is born with a blank sheet of paper and becomes colorful with the richness of life experience.
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but there are some things, the more the better, when we hoard too much and think that everything is important, life will be out of balance.
when people reach a certain age and learn to abandon some unnecessary things, they will encounter more unexpected scenery.
break, it is the thing that can't be done.
people often say, "Man triumphs over nature, and everything depends on man."
the truth is true, but throughout history, human beings are just a speck of dust, and there are some things that can be done after all.
in this world, some people live easily and some are tired because the former can afford it and let it go, while the latter can afford it and cannot let it go.
is it not a different kind of wisdom to know how to bow your head and learn to be flexible?
the abbot of a temple, who is very old, has been considering the question of his successor.
one day, the abbot said to his two proud disciples, Zhijian and Zhiyuan, "whoever can climb from the cliff behind the mountain on your own will be my successor."
under the cliff, the emaciated Zhijian climbed and fell again and again, but when he finally climbed to the middle of the cliff, he unfortunately fell and was dying, and the old abbot rescued him.
after several unsuccessful climbs, Zhiyuan went down the stream under the cliff, out of the valley, went to study abroad, and returned to the temple a year later.
the monks were so puzzled that the abbot smiled and explained:
"the cliff behind the temple is so steep that it cannot be climbed by manpower. But by the cliff, there is a way to be found.
if you insist on not giving up, the light will be distressed and sad, and the serious will hurt their bodies and limbs, then the sky will be high and the clouds will be light and the peace of mind will be at ease by changing the road. "
Yes, some things are predestined, but after all, it is up to people to get away with it.
you can't have both fish and bear's paw.
many people will feel the pain of losing the fish, but forget that if they don't give up the fish, they will face the greater pain of losing the bear's paw.
the same is true of life, obsessed with the present helplessness, the loss is not only the thing itself, but also a whole day's good mood.
just like the old man who lost a shoe on the train, instead of worrying about a shoe that is useless to him, he might as well throw the other one out and maybe make another person!
I can't put it down, and I'm the one who can't get it done.
learn to be flexible and give up at the right time, even if you come to an end, there will be a moment of "willow and dark flowers".
give up, but give up life without chance
it is written in Zengguang Xianwen: "sometimes there must be something in life, but don't force it all the time."
fate is a wonderful thing, one day can not be reduced, one day can not be increased, the time limit is up, half a cent is not up to people.
never expect someone to stay with you for the rest of your life, and wave goodbye even if you don't give up when someone wants to get off at the station.
people who are really happy know how to let nature take its course. Those who should come will not go, those who will go will not be forced.
after reading the stories of two netizens before, I still feel sad:
the ex-boyfriend got married, and the girl drove downstairs to his house late at night, looked at the lights in the wedding room with the happy word on the third floor, and sat quietly downstairs all night.
the other is the ex-girlfriend's wedding day, the young man drove in the back of the wedding motorcade, silently sent 7 kilometers.
while driving, he cried like a child.
he didn't stop until his ex-girlfriend sent a message saying, "I'm sorry, don't send it."
Sanmao said, "what you deliberately look for in life is often impossible to find." Everything in the world comes and goes at its own time. "
for some people, to miss is to miss, to be separated is to be separated, and there is no later talk at all.
the so-called "later" is the ending written by the story maker who is not reconciled to it.
it is no accident that no matter who you meet or fall in love with in your life, he is the one who should appear in your life.
when fate comes, we treat each other well; when fate comes to an end, we must learn to say goodbye to each other.
in the movie Chongqing Forest, there is a line that says:
"I don't know since when, everything has a date on it. Saury will expire, canned meat will expire, and even cling paper will expire. "
meeting is always caught off guard, leaving is also premeditated for a long time.
We can look back on the past once in a while, but we can't stay for a long time, because people always have to look forward, and living in memories will only make us more timid.
leave, but never leave the thoughts of annoyance
writer Ma de once said:
"the world seems to be surrounded by complexity, all kinds of people, mud and sand, in essence, it is your own world."
if you are clear, the world will be clean; if you are simple, the world will not be complicated.
there is a Zen story:
Monk Tan Shan was going to visit an eminent monk he had admired for a long time and went out with a young monk.
looking at the overcast day, the little monk hesitated: "it's going to rain heavily. You'd better wait until the rain stops."
without even looking up, Tan Shan stepped out the door with an umbrella: "what are monks afraid of?"
the young monk had no choice but to follow.
after walking half a mile through the mountain, the rain poured down.
the mountain road became more and more muddy, but not far away I saw a woman hesitating and looking embarrassed in front of a quagmire.
it turned out that she was wearing new clothes for fear of getting her clothes dirty.
Tan Shan strode forward and carried the girl over the quagmire.
on the way, the little monk couldn't help asking, "didn't you say that men and women are not close to each other? Why are you carrying her back? "
"which woman?" Tan Shan was stupefied, then smiled and said, "I just carried her over the quagmire, but you put her in your heart." So you still have too many thoughts on your mind! "
Little Sami has an epiphany.
A heart is so big that it naturally becomes an encumbrance when it contains more things.
when chatting with a friend, the other person thinks he has said something wrong when he is in a bad mood.
I made a mistake at work and worried about the boss blaming me, so I was worried all day.
I quarreled with my lover for a few words about family matters, and I couldn't rest when I slept over and over at night.
you see, when you get along with each other carefully, you don't treat each other honestly; if you do your work nervously, you don't put your heart and soul into it; you sleep so much that you can't sleep comfortably, but you don't sleep because you have distractions.
there is nothing to worry about in this world.
the real wise people in life, they are loyal to their hearts, and they are comfortable and comfortable when things go wrong, so they live a more thorough and clear life.
if you want to get rid of miscellaneous thoughts, you must keep a clear mind so that there is no breeding place for miscellaneous thoughts. Only when there is no hindrance in your eyes can there be a smooth road in your heart.
Master Nebula said: "worry starts from persistence, from ignorance, from obscurity, from being too selfish."
in the final analysis, it is because of greed. If you want everything, you get nothing in the end.
people's life is like a journey, we should not only strut forward, but also dump the "sand and stone" in our shoes in time.
Let those who leave leave, let those who continue; change what can be changed, and accept what is irreparable.
when you can't let go, let go, and don't want to give up, think about how much time you have left to waste.
there is no impassable road in this world, only people who can't figure it out.
try to subtract from life and pack light, then you will find that life is clear, everything is lovely, and the future is promising.