Those who treat you as grass, why should you regard him as a treasure?
read a paragraph:
if you don't reply to my message once, I think you are busy;
if you don't reply to my message twice, I think you have no power;
if you don't reply to my messages three times, I'll take you as absent;
all the drifting away in an intimate relationship comes from disappointment, so you can only pull over consciously.
writer Zhang Haochen said:
"when he doesn't like you, it's useless for you to appear around him deliberately and beautifully, the candy you send him is not sweet, and your 'what are you doing' from time to time is the same as a sales text message in his eyes. He can't understand the little thoughts you update in your state.
he is the background of your life, and you are his A, B, C, D. "
if a relationship wears you out and makes you feel aggrieved, give it up.
some people pay no attention to you, so it's better to get together and break up.
in life, it is superfluous to reach out for the things you can't grasp.
people who don't love you are always busy
browse to a moments in the middle of the night:
"the reason why you feel lonely is not that no one cares about you, but that the person you care about doesn't care about you."
I think so.
listen to friend Nini break up with her boyfriend recently, the reason is:
boyfriends often don't reply to messages.
they have been dating for a year, and their boyfriends often disappear.
once in the middle of the night, suddenly there was no news of my boyfriend. I thought he was working overtime, so he didn't reply to Wechat or answer his phone.
as a result, at 2 o'clock in the morning, there was still no news from her boyfriend. Nini was so worried that she contacted her boyfriend's best brother. She didn't expect her boyfriend to be KTV high.
then she questioned her boyfriend:
"can't you take the time to reply with a message?"
in your eyes, am I the air?
boyfriend said: "busy forget."
A "busy" word breaks everything, just like all those who can't read back and don't answer the phone can be summarized in five words:
I forgot in a hurry.
it's like this:
Let's have dinner together! I'm busy.
Let's go to the movies. I'm busy.
reply a message! I'm busy.
again and again, "I am very busy" is like a basin of cold water poured into your heart.
only children will ask, why are you ignoring me? Adults know that
the end of a relationship begins with never returning a message.
Zhang ailing said:
"if a person is not free, it is because he does not want to be free;
if a man can't leave, it's because he doesn't want to go away.
if a person gives you too many excuses, it's because he doesn't want to care. "
the road of life is not afraid of being slow, but afraid of waiting.
people who don't love you have blocked you in their hearts.
if you don't contact actively, you just don't care
have you ever had such an experience:
Wechat chat, you are always the active one.
if you don't look for him, he will never find you.
if you don't open your mouth, he is like a mute.
chat notes, starting with you and ending with you.
always ask "how are you?" In the end, they are also the ones who are hurt the most.
people who really care about you will take the initiative to contact you.
once, at a departmental dinner, the place for dinner was a little remote and the signal was not good.
his cell phone ran out of power and automatically turned off. As soon as he connected the charger and charged 10% of the battery, he looked for all kinds of signals and wanted to call his girlfriend.
colleagues all teased him and said, "you are such a pussy. You must be a strict wife."
he said, "if you don't take the initiative to call her, she will be worried."
wherever Huazi goes, he will take the initiative to contact his girlfriend and report his own situation. He will certainly do so:
there is an explanation for everything, a reason for everything, and an echo for everything.
you see, people who really care about you will never let you wait passively.
the so-called love one:
the matter is clear, and the details are clear.
whether a person loves you, the way of chat will tell you; whether a person loves you or not, actions are more important than words.
those who have you in their hearts will take the initiative to contact you; those who do not have you in their hearts will automatically ignore you.
not contacting doesn't mean you don't care, but it must be estranged.
because it doesn't matter if you don't take the initiative.
have read a sentence:
"if I post Wechat with my favorite person and he hasn't replied, I will delete the dialog box. I always feel like I see that dialog box, as if I saw my own humility and flattery."
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look at whether a person cares about you, don't ask, remember:
not taking the initiative is the answer, silence is refusing.
Love is not deep enough without you in moments
I have never appeared in his moments. Does he love me or not?
True love is open, but not love is hidden.
once saw a topic:
see a person's moment thoroughly?
there is a sad message:
I have been in love with my boyfriend for 2 years, and he has never taken me to meet his friends, nor has he ever made me public in moments.
I have no trace in his social circle.
every time I want to send his picture to my moments, he won't let me post it, as if he is afraid that others will know about our relationship.
I don't know what I'm holding on to. Maybe I should have let go a long time ago.
Love is not an one-man show, but a seesaw for two.
if the person you love makes you live carefully, don't waste your time. Either ask him bravely if he loves you, or make a clean break with him.
True love cannot be forced. Loving someone who doesn't love you is like holding a cactus. The more tightly you hold it, the more painful your heart will be.
"he may not like you that much" says:
"sometimes we prefer to believe that a man is too stressed, too tired, too self-abased, too sensitive, has the shadow of childhood or loves his ex-girlfriend too much, but is not willing to admit a simple fact."
the truth is, he doesn't like you that much.
No matter how hard it is to meet spring with dead wood, it is hard for rotten wood to become a forest.
those who don't love you will forget each other and be well with each other.
No one is stupid, whether it's true or not, love or not, you can feel it.
A popular passage in moments:
people who like you tell you I'm going to take a shower, and then they'll tell you I'm done, while those who don't like you say I'm going to take a shower, and then it's like
is in the bathroom.
people who like you tell you that I have gone to eat, and then they will tell you that I have finished eating, but people who don't like you tell you that I went to dinner, and then it seems to disappear on the dinner table.
people who like you tell you I'm going to bed, and then they'll tell you I'm awake, while those who don't like you haven't heard from me since I went to bed.
you see, it's really obvious whether a person loves you or not. if you've had enough disappointment, it's time to let go.
Don't be full of blood to stick to the cold ass, don't pretend to be strong, don't try your best to please, this disturbs others and humbles yourself.
remember, adult love is sober and interesting. Love is when two people miss each other.
, those who treat you as grass, why should you regard him as a treasure?
if one day, you suddenly think of me, I hope you do not regret, do not look back, because, I am not here.