May we all live for ourselves for once.
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if one day, I will no longer bother you, it is not that I have changed or become faint, but that I am afraid.
when you are afraid of giving, you get disappointment; when you are afraid of kindness, you get indifference.
with the accumulation of chills and disappointments, I understand.
only one side's hard-earned feelings are not long gone, so it is better to let go of each other.
it's not that I'm tired, but that I see
if one day, I won't bother you any more, not because I'm tired of it, but because I see it clearly.
see clearly, in your life, I am a dispensable person.
No matter how much I give to you, you turn a blind eye.
have seen such a story:
Xiao Ai and Meizi were college classmates, and later they lived in the same neighborhood.
once, Xiao Ai went to pick up his son from school and found that Meizi's daughter was not picked up, so she sent Meizi's daughter home on the way.
later I learned that Meizi and her husband often work overtime and have no time to pick them up.
Xiao Ai volunteered that she would take the two children to and from school in the future.
one day, Meizi helped her mother-in-law home. Xiao Ai was about to say hello to them, but she heard such a conversation.
Meizi's mother-in-law said, "you can thank Xiao Ai for picking up your children every day."
Meizi said, "Don't worry about it, you think she is really so kind!" It's because her husband works under my husband and deliberately fawns on our family! "
Xiao Ai was very angry at this, recognized the plum clearly, and went home silently.
after that day, Xiao Ai no longer took care of the pick-up and pick-up of Meizi's children, and Meizi complained that Xiao Ai was hot for three minutes.
Xiao Ai just shook his head and didn't want to say anything.
there is a lyric that says, "what you can't get is always in a stir, and those who are favored have nothing to fear."
the easier it is to get, the less cherished it is.
the same is true of people.
some people, no matter how much you give to him, he won't care.
people have dignity, sincerity is also very expensive, can not be exchanged for love, forget it!
it's not that I'm ruthless, but that my heart is cold
A few days ago, I saw a particularly chilling news:
A couple went out with their baby in a ride-hailing car. The baby got sick suddenly and was in a critical condition.
at that time, there was a traffic jam on the way to the hospital, and anxious family members had been urging the driver to drive faster.
in order to scramble for time, the driver didn't have time to think about it and ran three red lights to take the child to the hospital safely.
as a result, he has to face 18 points deducted and a fine of 600 yuan.
after learning about the situation, the traffic police said that as long as the driver could submit the relevant certificate from the hospital, he could withdraw his punishment.
the driver communicated with the baby's family and asked them to testify for themselves.
but the baby's family refused to testify, saying that running the red light was the driver's fault and had nothing to do with him.
later, the traffic police called up the monitoring and in-car recording and found that the driver had indeed done a good deed, so the driver's punishment was cancelled.
also published an article saying that good people should not be allowed to chill their hearts after doing good deeds.
many netizens also said that drivers are kind enough to save their children, but they are not even willing to testify, which is too chilling.
when the heart is cold, it is difficult to cover up the heat. If the heart of a kind-hearted person is cold, no one wants to be a good person.
if one day, I will no longer bother you, not because I am ruthless, but because my heart is cold.
when you need help, I am duty-bound; when I need help, you hesitate.
so, how chilling.
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as Wang Xiaobo said: "kindness is never an easy thing, wrong kindness, will not bring heaven to others, will only drag you to hell."
for those who can only take but not be grateful, the better you are to him, the more you suffer, and in the end you will only chill yourself.
in this world, not everyone is worth understanding and giving.
your kindness is meaningful only if you give it to someone who is worth it.
it's not that I've changed, but that I understand
if one day, I will no longer bother you, not because I have changed, but because I understand.
in all relationships, sincerity is mutual, and goodness is mutual.
if my kindness to you is a problem, then I take it back.
I no longer care about your life, and your mood has nothing to do with me.
because my heart is cold and disappointed, I can't go back.
Life is like drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold.
in the past, I was good to everyone. I was used to being kind and didn't know how to refuse.
is like a line in "Godfather":
"softness without boundaries will only make the other party gain an inch; kindness without principles will only let the other party do as he pleases."
it may not be autumn when it is coolWhen the heart is cold, it feels cold.
the cold of the heart is more terrible than the cold at any time.
now, I won't, because I get it.
I haven't changed. I'm still the one who will give and be kind to others.
it's just that I understand that sincerity and kindness have to be given to people who are worthy of it.
just as Bao Shuya supports Guan Zhong, Guan Zhong helps Bao Shuya;
like Mei Lanfang recommending Qi Baishi and Qi Baishi giving it back to Mei Lanfang;
I can see that you help me, and the friendship between us has come and gone.
in this way, the sincerity is warmer with sincerity, and the good reward with kindness is more comfortable.
so, from now on, I will no longer give to everyone.
there is a saying: "the character is easy to write, but difficult to do; the heart is easy to read, but difficult to understand."
but now I understand that hearts are mutual and feelings are mutual.
I will be true to those who are true to me, and I will be good to those who are good to me.
the most important thing is to cherish everyone who is kind to me and not to let them feel cold.
Xu Teli said: "it is a myth that you want to be happy without paying any price."
if you don't care about me, you won't get my sincerity and kindness.
if one day, I no longer bother you, it means I am no longer obsessed with it.
No longer take care of others in everything and tire yourself out!
from now on, you can be good to whoever you want to be good to, help whoever you want, and no longer let others influence you.
May we all live for ourselves for once for the rest of our lives!
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