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Anna Karenina says: "Happy families are all alike, and unhappy families are unhappy in their own way."

A happy family will always be the warmest harbor, which can protect the wind and rain and heal the soul.

even if there is a contradiction, it will be reconciled quickly without hurting feelings.

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once something happens, they will immediately form a rope, support and encourage each other, and work together to tide over the difficulties.

if a happy family is compared to a house, harmony is the foundation, filial piety is the beam, and diligence and thrift are the roof.

when a family has these three, it has the ability to be happy and is bound to be peaceful and prosperous, regardless of the wind and rain.

husband and wife are in harmony with one heart and one mind

educator Liu Changming once said:

"never regard children as more important than husband and wife. The relationship between husband and wife is the most important. It is precisely because of the strong relationship between husband and wife that there is a strong family. With a strong family, children will have a normal and good environment for growing up. "

the relationship between husband and wife is the Poseidon needle in the family.

only when husband and wife respect each other, understand each other and help each other, the family will glow with vigor and vitality.

the best love parents can give to their children is that they love each other.

the husband is like a mountain, the wife is like water, the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, and the family thrives and flourishes.

when it comes to loving couples, Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang are the most enviable couple.

their love makes each other feel like a spring breeze, and also leaves warm and beautiful memories for their children's life.

once, when Qian Zhongshu Yang Jiang took her daughter Qian Kui to a restaurant, Yang Jiang found that her daughter had been staring at other people at the table and quietly warned: "Don't stare at others all the time, it's impolite."

the daughter said, "Mom and Dad, look, the parents of that family are quarreling, and the parents of that family don't talk to each other. It's so pitiful to be their children." You love each other and make me a lucky child. "

Children who grow up in an atmosphere in which their parents love each other know more about how to love and be loved, and are more willing to give their own love, to love others, to love life, and to love the world.

if there is discord among relatives, their family is bound to be defeated.

whether a family is harmonious or not, the most important thing is whether the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious.

if husband and wife fall in love, the family will be in harmony, and the family will be of one mind. No matter how difficult it is, the family will certainly become rich.

filial piety to parents is enjoyable

some people say that the process of children growing up is actually a process in which the "role" of parents gradually weakens.

from crying babies to gradually growing up to being able to take care of themselves, and then to being financially independent, we have become strong, and the role of parents has declined.

until one day, parents will question whether they are no longer needed and whether their aging puts pressure on their children, so a sense of unease and loss becomes a burden in their hearts.

as children, it gives parents peace of mind and makes them feel that they are still "needed" by their children. It is still valuable to this family, which is the highest level of filial piety.

when he was 70, he never said the word "old" in front of his parents, because he was afraid that if he said he was old, his parents would feel that he was reminding them that they were getting older in disguise.

in order to make his parents happy, he often wears the floral clothes of his childhood;

imitate when I first learned to carry water when I was a child, I deliberately slipped outside the lobby and pretended to cry like a child.

parents are amused and distressed when they see their son's funny behavior.

when asked why Lao Laizi did this, he replied:

"Children are always children in the eyes of their parents. As long as children still need themselves, they will have the meaning of existence. They will forget their age and think that they are still useful."

as the saying goes, "A hundred filial piety is not as good as a smooth one, and a hundred obedience is better than one use."

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parents' loneliness begins with the feeling that their children no longer need them.

filial piety to parents should let them grow old with dignity.

in addition to respecting the elderly on weekdays, it is more important for them to find their own value and meaning, rather than feel like a burden, which can give them the happiest old age.

thrift means thrift, while thrift makes people healthy

Zeng Guofan inherited the sixteen-character motto of later generations: thrift is thrifty, diligence is healthy, diligence is thrifty, and never poor.

diligence is the foundation of running a family. The happy life of a family depends on the creation of industrious hands.

the family style of diligence and thrift can make the family prosperous, keep the family healthy, stay away from embarrassment and create more wealth.

neighbor Aunt Zhuang had a small car accident a few years ago, and she had sequelae in her legs and feet, which was not very sharp.

so only her husband, Uncle Li, earns money to support the family, and the family also has an old mother and little daughter, so life is very tight for a time.

Auntie Zhuang is very frugal and capable, so she has opened up a piece of land in her small yard to grow all kinds of vegetables, which is both economical and healthy.

when she didn't have the money to buy new furniture, Aunt Zhuang kept the house clean and tidy and trained herself to be an expert at repairing household appliances.

although she is frugal, Aunt Zhuang never cares about money in education and often takes her daughter to the bookstore.

although their family is poor, they lead a lively life under the painstaking management of Aunt Zhuang. Uncle Li is often rightThe neighborhood said that he was lucky and married a good wife who could keep the house.

the Night talk around the stove says: "the poor have no choice but to be frugal, and it is better to be clumsy as long as they are diligent."

if a family is lazy and extravagant, even if they own Jinshan and Silver Mountain, they will have an empty day.

if a family maintains the family style of diligence and thrift, even if the material conditions are not very good, it will have its own happy time, and will eventually usher in a time of prosperity.

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the feng shui of a family is built by the whole family.

only if the family style is diligent and thrifty and cherish happiness, can the family keep happiness and never be embarrassed.

only when we respect the elderly and be filial to our parents can we laugh and laugh and be happy.

if the love between husband and wife is harmonious, the child must be gentle and kind.

everything is happy if there is peace at home.

A happy and harmonious family atmosphere is the best feng shui for a family.

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