Cleaning seems to be a simple manual work, but in fact it contains profound wisdom in life.
I went back to my hometown during National Day holiday. After walking around the village, I found a very interesting phenomenon:
all families in need have all kinds of sundries scattered in the courtyard and in front of the door, while families with neat, clean and tidy arrangements in front of the door and in the courtyard are generally more affluent.
these days, I have been thinking about this question: what is the causal relationship between tidy courtyards and affluence?
is it because you are rich that you have the energy and time to clean up the courtyard, so the courtyard is clean and tidy? Or is it because the courtyard is clean and tidy that life becomes rich?
and the poor are so tired of three meals that they have no time to clean up at all? Or is it because you are too lazy to clean up that your life is in chaos and poverty?
the heart changes with things, and the emotion changes with things. If you look at the room, you'll know how your life is going.
after years of research, Harvard Business School has found a phenomenon:
successful people with a strong sense of happiness tend to live in a clean and tidy home, while unfortunate people usually live in messy and dirty.
then fumble out such a conclusion:
"the room you live in is a reflection of yourself, and your life is actually like your room."
cleaning is cleaning the mind
space, which has a strong appeal to people's emotions:
A dirty room will make the whole space full of inertia, and people who are involved in this torrent of inertia will naturally be infected with inertia.
there is such a true story.
A little flower girl gave the remaining rose to a beggar by the side of the road.
the beggar made a decision to stop begging today and go home!
he put the roses in a bottle at home and raised them, then put them on the table and quietly enjoyed the beauty of the roses.
he suddenly thought how such beautiful flowers could be placed on such a dirty bottle, so he decided to wash the bottle clean.
he sat by the side quietly admiring the beautiful roses. Suddenly he felt that such beautiful flowers and such clean bottles could not be placed on such a messy table, so he began to clean the table and tidy up the sundries.
after dealing with it, he sat on the side quietly admiring everything in front of him. suddenly he felt that such beautiful roses and such a clean table could be placed in such a messy room.
so he made a decision to clean the whole room, put all the things neatly, and clean all the rubbish out of the room. Suddenly the whole room became bright and warm.
was intoxicated, he suddenly found a dishevelled, untidy, ragged young man in the mirror. How could such a man be qualified to stay in such a room?
so he immediately took a bath, shaved, changed into clean clothes, and tidied himself from head to toe.
then look in the mirror and suddenly find a handsome young face in the mirror that I have never seen before!
at this time, his soul suddenly awakened, he suddenly felt very good, and he immediately made the most important decision in his life!
the next day he no longer became a beggar but went looking for a job. With his unremitting efforts, he later became a very successful business boss!
is cleaning really so magical?
indeed, cleaning seems to be a simple manual work, but in fact it contains profound wisdom in life.
A messy environment represents the accumulation of negative energy in the heart.
Let the environment become refreshing, emotional energy can flow naturally, the mood is happy, and thorny problems are often easily solved.
cleaning the house is to clean up the mind, and the mess in the house also brings confusion of thought.
cleaning home is equivalent to cleaning up the trash in the brain, and wisdom will naturally grow.
therefore, the letter from Zeng Guofan warned the children: "it is difficult for the brothers to clean up. This is the atmosphere of losing the family."
get up at dawn, sweep the court and remove
in fact, making your life organized and tidy is not as difficult as you think. All you need is a "cleaning power".
sweeping power is the magic generated by sweeping, which includes not only external cleaning and tidiness of the room, but also inner introspection to create a benign "psychological magnetic field", which helps to solve troubles and achieve career.
the process of cleaning is the process of dealing with, selecting, sublating and discarding, and it is your interaction with the environment. A clean environment clearly shows your logic and organization.
so "Zhu Zi Family precepts" begins by warning children and grandchildren:
"get up at dawn, sweep the court, and be neat inside and outside."
such seemingly simple words embody the wisdom of the Chinese ancients in running the family.
for as long as I can remember, my mother "gets up at dawn and sweeps the courtyard" every day, sweeping the house and courtyard, and the genius is bright.
now, every time I go back to my hometown on vacation, I find that the house and courtyard are clean and tidy.
when I get up every morning, I find that the house has already been cleaned and washed, and even the marble floor of more than 200 square meters of courtyard has been washed with water.
I noticed that my mother always changes her shoes every time she enters the house. In our hometown and countryside, people don't have this habit at all. So I reminded my mother, "Don't change your shoes when you enter the house, so that no one else dares to come to our house."
Mother said: "I know this, I am very careful, once there isWhen people come, I don't change my shoes. "
Mother not only keeps the house clean and tidy, but also keeps herself clean and refreshed, taking a bath, washing her hair and changing her clothes every day.
when a person has formed a good habit and has a clean space, the quality of life will continue to improve.
therefore, the 80-year-old mother, clean and tidy, straight, Hale and hearty, refreshed, can not see the twilight of the elderly at all.
as you keep cleaning up your home, the clogged areas inside you will become more and more unobstructed and relaxed, and love and gratitude will flow in.
break up, throw
A blogger named Yu Tsai filmed a video of throwing away useless things at home and got 1.1 million high likes.
netizens commented that they saw their own figure in her.
Yu Tsai just felt that the space at home was getting smaller and smaller, so he wanted to clean up the clutter.
unexpectedly, after starting to clean up, I found that it was as "grand" as moving, and there were really too many things!
unused mops and buckets, a bunch of unused cell phone cases, data cables, bags brought back from every shopping, all out-of-date medicine.
clutter in drawers, ugly cabinets in the kitchen, piles of moldy grains and unused seasonings, and a few bugs.
of course, the most important thing is clothing.
clothes that you thought would be worn and matched were not worn once after hanging up; a large number of items bought on sale were not cut off; and there were all kinds of gifts that were not needed at all.
when she finished cleaning it all, the unwanted sundries took up half the size of the house, which was beyond imagination.
in fact, many of us are like Yu Tsai, and many items are always thought to be useful in the future.
when you see beautiful things and encounter discounts and sales, you can't control your desire to buy or buy.
but the truth is, the more you buy, the more you save, taking up a lot of space at home, which may cost less than 1/10.
and the extra items have become a drag on life, which is so heavy that people are out of breath.
"We throw away the unimportant 90% of our lives, and the remaining 10% will give us more."
there are often three types of things that need to be cut off: unnecessary, inappropriate, and unpleasant.
more than half of the things in our living space may be forgettable, that is, things that have been forgotten about existence itself, many of which you don't need, but you think you can use them.
there are a lot of inappropriate, inappropriate clothes, inappropriate shoes.
it is easy for many people to ignore what is unpleasant. What is unpleasant?
for example, if you don't feel comfortable using it every time, throw it away early to get a new one and make yourself happy.
separation is not simply dealing with sundries and throwing away waste, but awakening "circulation" in the long river of life full of closeness.
throw away a useless item and you will have a little more space.
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throw away a piece of excess, and you will have less burden.
throw away a piece of rubbish and restore a bit of freshness.
everyone needs to break up and get rid of unimportant things in order to return a piece of clean land to us, so that we can make a breakthrough and grow.
the ancients said: sweep the floor, sweep the heart, sweep the place without sweeping the heart.
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